Sex In A New Relationship (And why its over-rated)

So its been nearly two months since I started dating Prince Charming.

Recently he told me he loved me. All the more interesting was that I was thinking or rather debating within myself whether to tell him that I had fallen for him too. When he said those magical words,  I didn't immediately reply I loved him (Though I really wanted to) but waited to see whether it was the spur of the moment or if he meant them.

Last week he said those magical words again and this time I replied I loved him too. His eyes were shining and his amazing smile made everything look quite nice.

At this moment you have to understand Prince Charming and I haven't yet consummated our new found love yet.

In this age of speed that should be a concern right? I hardly think about it. Unless of course am jerking off and I fantasize about him always. Prince Charming himself tells me that I occupy his mind during his jerk sessions and the conversation grows risque and much more dirtier.

Why though haven't we christened it? Or are we the exception to the rule? I remember my previous one fuck stands. I hardly knew the guys and before I knew it we were both hitting the sack for a forgettable passionate fuck. As soon one of us cummed we will scupper and never think about it again.

Oh believe me I really do wanna have my passionate love-making with Prince Charming. I really do! But I don't want passion to guide me on this one. I love and cherish Prince Charming and everyday I enjoy the chats and calls and the sweet good night texts however we haven't reached their yet.

There is something with been in a relationship that kinda saps the power out of the sex-centred lives of ours before we met each other. Getting to know Prince Charming is much gratifying at this stage than sucking his dick (which I truly wanna do). Understanding his struggles and his dreams and how they relate to me makes more sense for us to wait until the compatibility is 100%.

One gay friend of mine told me that sex seals a new relationship. The same guy was dumped twice since I met Prince Charming. So the theory of sex enhancing a new relationship is a bit overrated and I for one am a living proof.

But that also raises the question if u have told each other that you love one another why are you still waiting. Frankly I do not know why we are still waiting and honestly I don't care because spending time with him without the sex at this point is more gratifying.

The time will come when Prince Charming's glorious dick will be in my mouth and I will savor it like a slave to his master and in a few days we will be celebrating knowing each other 2 complete months and maybe, just maybe that night I will be making love to a guy who I truly love.

Ciao and have a blessed Mothers day.
Mahad.